CHALLENGES OF LIVING ABROAD
After years and years of studying when to use ‘do’ or ‘does’ in a question, writing dozens of study cards, I was an expert identifying Past Perfect Continuous vs Conditional Continuous Perfect. However, the day I decided that I would study a Master’s degree abroad I was unable to put everything together in conversation.
I want to share with you some of the challenges you will need to overcome when initiating a new life in a foreign country and in a new language. I’ll give it to you straight, so you can prepare – prepare your mindset and meet whatever your goal is. If you’re a foreigner I’m sure you will identify with this, and if you’re a local please read it! It will help you to understand some of those awkward moments with your international friends:
1. Challenging your self confidence
How many “What was that?”, “Pardon?”, “Sorry, I don’t understand?” will you resist before your self-confidence starts to quiver? No doubt, this is the biggest challenge when you move to a new country to speak a new language. In our day to day life we take for granted the ability of communicating and being understood. In this new adventure however, you may feel frustrated sometimes. Not everyone is patient enough to talk to you slowly and clearly. Not everyone feels comfortable talking to you and often people will nod without fully understanding what you were trying to say. But here is a tip: You can make everything easier for you listeners. Make fun of your mistakes, and let them know you’d appreciate when they correct you. Let them know you won’t feel bad, and it will prevent awkward moments.2. Introspection
When one is not fluent in a language, many of the conversations occur in the mind. Certainly, you learn to talk less, and think before speaking. Since talking – at the beginning – won’t be a natural act, you will have to put in the effort, and really concentrate on the conversation. Therefore, from time to time you will feel tired of talking, and you will want time off, time to be with yourself only. But don’t let this become a habit, make your brain work as hard as you can. The more you do, the faster you improve. While you are learning the language, you will also find it difficult to follow your first conversations, because while you structure a coherent sentence in your head, the conversation will have changed to a different topic, and then it will be too late to make your comment. The upside is these experiences isthat they will make of you a good listener.3. Finding a Job
There are three key points here.- Not many countries recognise University degrees from a foreign country, or they have a specific list of careers they will validate. So, if you have the opportunity of studying something more than a language course, please do so.
- Moving to a foreign country means you need to start from zero. For example, your previous working experience won’t have the same value, if it has anything at all. (Of course If you have worked in a multinational company with a branch in your new country, that is an advantage). So finding a job fast is important, even if this not in your area of expertise, because you will need references that can prove you are a good worker and you understand the dynamic of the new culture.
- It is one thing to be interviewed in your own language when you have the ability to sort tricky questions and show your strengths, but in a foreign language you could find yourself short of the necessary vocabulary to respond. Therefore, as the interview won’t be your strength, you will have to start with a great image from the beginning. Your resumé needs to highlight you professionalism and creativity.
One Comment
I really can relate to this post. I’ve moved to Australia in the past year and I’m still facing difficulties finding locals to connect with. Most of the places I go and events I join are filled with international students.
I enjoy your blog and thank you for this post.